Finding Forever by Miriam Zeitlin

Shidduchim Unscripted: A Dating Coach Tells You What You Really Need to Know

You’ve heard it all before. Make your “wants” and “needs” list. Do hishtadlus. Give it one more try.
But dating can still feel like you’re going in circles, never getting closer to finding The One. You wonder, How long will this take? Am I doing this right? Why do I keep having one-and-done dates? Why is this so hard?!
In Finding Forever, dating coach Miriam Zeitlin shares golden tools and tips that have helped singles from diverse backgrounds break free from the dating cycle. This is more than just a dating book — it’s a practical guide to help you take control of your dating life and move forward with confidence. You’ll learn how to increase self-awareness, handle rejection and societal pressure, improve your conversation skills, build emotional intimacy, and make that final decision with clarity.

Filled with warmth, humor, and down-to-earth advice, Finding Forever gives you the fundamental mindset and skills to go from first date to finally finding your soulmate.

“Miriam Zeitlin understands the dating process and offers guidance that is valuable and effective. This book is a must-read!” —Lisa Elefant, Founder of Adopt-a-Shadchan

“This book is a true gift! With her warm and open style, Miriam makes it easy for the reader to gain the skills, practical tips, and powerful exercises. The balance of meaningful and practical makes this book important for every dater.” —Rochel Goldbaum, Creator of the Directed Dating Approach

“This book is a great contribution and well done.” —Rabbi Efrem Goldberg, Rabbi, Boca Raton Synagogue

Book Title Finding Forever
Author Miriam Zeitlin
ISBN 9798888394991
Date Published September 2025
Pages 264
Cover Type Hardcover